Do u think we have cords attached ? like the ones in Avatar…

“I love being recklessly straightforward.”

I love calling or sending “out of nowhere”’ text messages to people I haven’t talked to, from a long time…. I love calling people for a coffee just randomly any day. I love telling them that I love spending time with u. I love hugging people. I love saying, I love the way u kiss me….I love the way u hold me. A little emoji on whats app makes my day brighter. I love the tongue out Smiley..and whenever I see it..i have a self image of tongue out..:-p…with a wink..;-P

I just want people around me to be happy..and tell them what they mean to me..Earth would not have been a beautiful place without all of u.

But y?

I have a feeling…One day, I might die in a accident…or may be some unknown disease…I will never know what….and all the feelings inside me will die with me….

It’s the fear which makes me reckless. Its the fear which makes me outgoing. Its the fear which makes me love people more. Its the fear that makes me look desperate. It makes me want to live more…live more in every moment..It makes me free…Fear makes me Free..

Its magical to find love in all corners of earth..Its magical how an unknown city becomes ur home…how the people in train become ur friends…how ur collegue starts feeling ur problems…how a stranger u met in running club becomes ur close friend… a highly experienced guy i met in a conference becomes my buddy…its just so magical…

invisible cords
invisible cords

There are some cords attached…just like the ones we saw in Avatar movie…yes those purplish pink ones…I have a feeling we also have some cords attached…just that they are invisible.

Its strange…that when our loved ones are’t well or going through a bad phase…we can automatically feel the same , sitting miles away…howmuch ever we fight with our parents or siblings…something draws us to it a magnet…cords..wat..there is a strong feeling of belongingness….YES…the Cords are attached..the invisible ones…and to a lottt of people around us..of which we are unaware…

I love the way I have strings attached to nature..I love to walk and feel the green grass…I love to see flowers…I love to see the sky…I just feel I have some connection with the nature..yes..the cords are attached,,,

And I love the cords…jus the fear of loosing some..makes me reckless…

I love being Fearfully Free..its liberating..

Do u feel Fearfully free..have u had the same feeling,even for a moment..Feel free to share..remember even a emoji makes my day..!



Daughters are such a waste!

Cut I

Sunday Morning, My husband and Me decide to go for a coffee with one of our Close friend Kalpit (Gender-MALE).

Mr Kalpit has got a baby (Gender-FEMALE) who will be turning one in a month or two.I being the Overly Excited Soul asked him “Where is the Party?? Did u book Banquet? When are we getting the treat?”

Mr Kalpit belongs to “ Business class  , well to do family ” replies very innocently…”Ï haven’t thought about it”.

So , we all search for different birthday ideas from our Facebook accounts…(read Stalking Facebook pics of random people for ideas) & different Party Organisers.

I come across really nice pics of A grand Party and as a Reference ..I show him all the pics.

Ladka hai na…..Isliye itna Grand hai”…..are the lines which he blabbers…

Complete Silence for 15 mins……………………………………………………(I was burnt from inside, It was such a big slap on my Race…)

Cut II

Tuesday routine night , we (V & I) were starting our dinner at home…and suddenly the phone rang. I saw the name…It was Kalpit…& it was THE DAY(Birthday).

I asked V to pick up the call and see if he is calling us for party..:-D…& I left my sprouts & soup half way in the expectations of Tikkas , Biryaani…Cake..Pics and lottt more…

Kalpit was broken…..Kalpit’s mother (Mother of SONS) had denied all the Celebrations and the happiness surrounding the girl’s birthday.

This incident just tore my heart in pieces and left me with no words. I tried to explain but all in vain

Its not about party,its about respecting the presence.Its about expressing love.

Agar aurat hi khud ki ijjat na kare,to koi aur kaise kare.


Are We the People living in metros?

Are we still stuck to Gender Biasness?

Are we the Bright Youth of India?

Does a “ Extra two Inch Finger” alters the love and Celebrations?

Just giving birth to a Boy child frees us from all the responsibilities and we become superior?

Why is the Girl child not given equal love and respect?

What I Concluded—Daughters are such a waste for the Parents…Even though they have only 25-30 years to celebrate their life with their parents, they waste the Money , time and resources of their parents.Ignore the happiness of a child, just because she has “’one Finger less”.Please Save your Hard earned money for a Male child and his ladakpann!!

When will Daughters (rather god) realise… They are such a waste of Time.

Why don’t two Men come together and give a birth to ‘THE BOY’…NOW I AM TALKING BUSINESS…RIGHT????




Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental.